Do you sometimes get lost or frustrated hunting
down
articles of interest when visiting a blog? I sure do. I am aware
my blog is not
the easiest one to navigate around due to my lack of vision in
setting it up
with tabs and categories, social shares and friendly comment
boxes.
So, to avoid any frustration you may experience
at the
Gateway, I have dug up some of the little treasures hidden within
200 pages on
this blog and have placed links to each one in today’s post.
If you are new to the Gateway, or if you are a
subscriber,
here are my 15 most popular posts as a quick reference map to read
more on ‘the
ART of being blind’.
1: 8-threads to weave into the garment of change
When I began
to lose my
eyesight, it was natural to fear losing so many other aspects of
my life that I
treasured. The hardest hurdle to overcome was knowing how to
weave positive
threads into the garment with the label of disabled
firmly secured to the fabric of my life.
2: Many Different Hats
My mother hat is swiftly replaced with a
survival hat to
help me cross the six-lane highway with its heavy traffic using my
white cane
as my trusted guide. I listen intently with complete focus and
concentration –
not one other thought crosses my mind except “Stay safe”.
3: 5 key ways blind people do it better
It’s
true! Anything sighted people can do, visually-impaired or blind
people can do
it better. Be warned, we know our limitations and we’ve adapted
to this
blind-challenge. Being blind brings a new spin on life. When you
accept the
ride, you actually find many ways in which to excel.
4: What colour is that?
For
as long as there are some shades in the colour spectrum to
discern, my brain
will offer logical deductions to help make sense of the blurry
world all
around. But when the object
is too far
away or impossible to see because of faulty light-
sensitive cells at the
back of my scarred retinas, my brain asks: ‘Eyes, please be more
specific, I
have no idea what that is!’
5: Benefit #1 being blind: you are the rose among the thorns
There
IS a better way to take hold of this thing they call blindness.
When we choose
to look for the symbolic rose among the thorns, life takes on a
new
perspective.
6: Insight through sound
Imagine
a spider in her well spun web who becomes acutely aware with her
sensitive
receptors when an accidental intruder bounces onto the invisible
threads
guarding her territory. I too receive information from the ‘vibes’
bouncing
towards me, partly through hearing and partly by trust and
intuition.
7: It’s touching to see the world
As I stand at
the gateway
facing the ever-diminishing sense of sight, my view of the world
would be dim
indeed, if my hands were bound together, and never allowed to
reach out and
touch what my eyes fail to see.
8: Tools of the blind-tradie
Among my collection of
tools are four
qualities that I recommend to any person embarking on the
profession of blind
artisan. No matter what the obstacle ahead, I can guarantee from
personal
experience four attributes that will help you meet any challenge
– and come out
smiling.
9: A license to laugh
Humour
is a tool that has the capacity to open the heart and unlock the
gift of
laughter to any soul seeking the truth. Seeing the ‘funny’ side of
life when it
could also be seen as ‘tragic’ is a tool worth its weight in gold.
10: To braille or not to braille: that was my question
Sometimes,
my
mother sat by my side and coloured in parts of my school work that
I was
struggling to see. She added her artistic flair to brighten up the
pages of my
books as well as lighten our hearts. But then came the Question I
had been
dreading, to braille or not to braille.
11: Blind Sherlock and Dr Memory
As sight
fades, I am aware
of how much I am gathering clues from listening, touching,
smelling, tasting,
feeling and observing as best my eyes can but above all, there
is one
undeniable device working over time in helping me to adapt to
change.
12: The scent lingers on International Women’s Day
True friendship grows out of a genuine desire to sweeten the life of your friend when they have a bitter pill to swallow. When sight began to fade during my teen years, I found such a true friend at school. Like two peas in a paranoid-pod, we soon became inseparable confidantes for one another.
13: Why be fashionable if you can’t see?
Choosing one’s clothing is a matter of FEELING
first, then
seeing how it all fits together. When you feel good in what you
wear, you will
look great. Feeling textures of clothing is not always because I
want to buy it
but is a curious desire on my part to see the choices at my
fingertips.
14: Writing Blind: how blind people manage to write
As a visually-impaired writer I compose
stories, store
documents to folders, read and send emails, create posts for blogs
and surf the
internet – all without being able to see the screen on my laptop.
Come and meet
my verbose parot, and see how we work together…
15: Mastering Blindness: Radio Australia Interview
if you want a front row seat, sit back and
listen to the
conversation where I speak with the charming Phil Kafcaloudes,
presenter of a
popular morning breakfast show on Radio Australia. We talk
candidly on ‘
Mastering the daily challenges of living with blindness and
journey back in
time to explain how it all began with the diagnosis in my teen
years.
Got any of your favourite stories to share?
Please leave
your comment here…
You may also like to read travel stories from a blind perspective.
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2015 Maribel
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Copyright © 2015 Harry Williamson
1 comment:
I need to print this and read it (if only I could) or get my husband to record him reading it so I can listen to it over and over again. I'm finding it so hard coming to terms with losing my sight so suddenly. thanks for such a great list of positives.
Emma at http://mscalling.blogspot.com
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